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Friday Five

  • Aug. 17th, 2007 at 8:34 PM
Who do you live with?
My lovely husband, two dogs and a cat

Do you like who you live with or do you want change?
I'm very happy with who I live with :)

Describe the ideal roommate.
I'm pretty sure my husband is pretty ideal as a roommate. He may be messy, but I am too and he's not as messy as other roommates I've had. Making dinner and shopping would be easier if he liked more vegetables and "healthy" food, but that's not terrible to work around. We're both pretty laid back and quiet.

How much sleep did you get last night?
About five hours. I stayed up too late watching a movie.

Where would you love to play hide-and-seek?
Hmm ... the Field Museum at night might be kind of cool.
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A Tale of Too Many Pounds

  • Jun. 25th, 2007 at 12:05 PM
So if you couldn't tell from all the GGMM posts from me about eating healthy lately, I've started a diet. I don't really like that word, though, since it's meant to be a lifestyle change, but the ultimate goal is to lose weight and get in shape.
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Answers to the music meme

  • Jun. 19th, 2007 at 10:52 AM
Here are the answers to the ones no one got (I guess it wasn't as easy as I thought):

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Music Meme

  • Jun. 16th, 2007 at 9:45 PM
My iPod seemed to have kind of a one-track mind tonight ... 

 

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Jumping on the bandwagon

  • Jun. 6th, 2007 at 2:02 PM

Your Score: 6 - the Questioner


Thanks for taking the test !



you chose CY - your Enneagram type is SIX (aka "The Loyalist").


"I am affectionate and skeptical"



Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.


How to Get Along with Me



  • Be direct and clear.
  • Listen to me carefully.
  • Don't judge me for my anxiety.
  • Work things through with me.
  • Reassure me that everything is OK between us.
  • Laugh and make jokes with me.
  • Gently push me toward new experiences.
  • Try not to overreact to my overreacting.

What I Like About Being a SIX



  • being committed and faithful to family and friends
  • being responsible and hardworking
  • being compassionate toward others
  • having intellect and wit
  • being a nonconformist
  • confronting danger bravely
  • being direct and assertive

What's Hard About Being a SIX



  • the constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind
  • procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself
  • fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of
  • exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger
  • wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right
  • being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations

SIXes as Children Often



  • are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn
  • are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger
  • form a team of "us against them" with a best friend or parent
  • look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel
  • are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, and/or take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent

SIXes as Parents



  • are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty
  • are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence
  • worry more than most that their children will get hurt
  • sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
Harper SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages



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You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose CY

Would you rather have chosen:

  • AY (EIGHT)
  • BY (FOUR)
  • CX (TWO)
  • CZ (ONE)

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    It's funny how things work out sometimes

    • May. 26th, 2007 at 7:14 PM
    So the husband talked to his manager yesterday and said he was probably going to leave within the next month. The manager then made some calls, and because the manager so desperately wants to keep him, he's being offered his own store within the company. Basically, the company he works for bought another company. They're going to be adding these new stores to some of their current stores, including the one that my husband works for, which will be attached but completely separate. And it means a pay raise. He's still got another month in his current position before he can start, and I really hope nothing happens in the meantime, but yay for good news. 

    And check out my scrapbook to see the results of my hard work today.
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    The downside of being an "adult"

    • May. 25th, 2007 at 12:57 PM
    So I thought I'd actually post something about what's going on in my life. We'll see how it goes ...

    As much as I love the fun aspects of being an adult (no curfew, no homework, being able to drive, vote, drink alcohol, etc.), the whole paying bills and having to make money in order to pay them thing sucks sometimes. I lucked out--after a year at a job that was cool at first and then just OK, I got offered a job at a magazine that I love. While it has its ups and downs, when I really think about it, I really kind of like going to work every day. My husband has had his ups and downs with his job, too, and has finally come to the point where he hates it and dreads going to work every day. And I hate that he feels that way. So he's talking about quitting and finding another job. The problem is he works in retail, a very good job in retail with great insurance and lots of vacation days and a bigger salary than me, but he never went to college. So while I keep telling him that it's more important that he's happy, I'm worried that he won't be able to find a job that pays as much as his current one. Ultimately he needs to find a job that will pay him for all his years of experience that doesn't require a degree. We could survive on less money, but it would be tough. And we were planning on having kids soon (like getting pregnant this year soon). Now I know there's never a "perfect" time to get pregnant, because life never follows what you have planned, but the whole money thing scares me. I can thank my parents for making me so paranoid. And then, when I think about it, I'm blown away that I'm old enough to be worrying about bills and insurance and babies. 

    However, this weekend I'm going to focus on making my "how to" project for the magazine (I have to make ice cream sandwiches for the July issue--I know, I have it rough) and visitng with my brother who's in town for a week from L.A. I'm just hoping the husband doesn't go and quit his job this weekend ...
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    A venture into the unknown

    • May. 24th, 2007 at 9:41 PM
    So this is my first attempt to actually use my LJ account. And my page isn't just the default color anymore! Hopefully it will become a little more interesting as time goes on. Anyway, hi everyone!
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